My Journey As A Scribe

Reflections of a Scribe: Cultivating Compassion

Here are my reflections on an incredible experience that shaped me as an individual and instilled in me a profound sense of compassion. Earlier this year, during my 11th grade, I had the privilege of serving as a scribe for a student with a learning disability for her 12th grade CBSE Board Exams, thanks to my alma mater, Mayoor School Noida. Today, as I look back on that journey as a scribe, I am overwhelmed with gratitude for the invaluable lessons it imparted.

Starting the Journey as a Scribe

From the first day, I understood that this role demanded more than just academic or administrative assistance. It required empathy, patience, and the ability to create a comfortable and inclusive environment. The initial apprehensions and challenges soon gave way to the deep bond that formed between us. Witnessing her determination and resilience in the face of adversity was truly inspiring.

As I sat beside her during the exams, I learned the power of adaptability and flexibility. Each day presented unique hurdles, but we tackled them together, finding innovative solutions along the way. I became adept at anticipating her needs, providing the necessary support without undermining her capabilities. It was an incredible exercise in understanding the importance of individualized approaches and fostering a sense of independence.

True meaning of Diversity and Inclusion

Beyond the academic realm, this experience taught me to challenge societal stereotypes and embrace diversity. I realized that true inclusivity goes beyond merely accommodating differences; it involves actively celebrating them. My student had a unique perspective on life, and through our interactions, I gained a deeper understanding of the richness that lies in embracing diverse voices and experiences.

How to Cultivate Compassion?

Compassion is a powerful force that has the potential to transform lives and create a more inclusive society. Here are some ways in which we can all cultivate compassion in our daily lives, with a particular focus on promoting inclusivity for people with disabilities:

#1: Educate ourselves

Take the time to learn about different disabilities, their challenges, and the experiences of individuals living with them. By understanding their unique perspectives, we can break down misconceptions and foster empathy.

#2: Practice active listening

Give people with disabilities the space to express themselves and actively listen to their stories and experiences. This helps create an environment where their voices are heard, respected, and valued.

#3: Be patient and understanding

People with disabilities may require additional time or assistance to navigate their daily lives. Be patient and understanding, offering help when needed without assuming their limitations or diminishing their abilities.

#4: Foster inclusion

Create inclusive environments that accommodate the needs of individuals with disabilities. This includes physical accessibility, but also extends to promoting inclusive policies, practices, and attitudes within our communities and workplaces.

#5: Avoid making assumptions

Each person’s experience with disability is unique. Avoid making assumptions based on stereotypes or generalizations. Treat each person as an individual and engage in open, respectful conversations to understand their specific needs and preferences.

#6: Offer assistance without condescension

If you encounter someone who may require assistance, approach them respectfully and ask if they need help. Treat them as equals and avoid patronizing or belittling them. Respect their autonomy and let them guide you on how best to support them.

#7: Lead by example

Practice compassion in your own daily interactions. Small acts of kindness and understanding can create ripples of positive change. Treat everyone you encounter with empathy, respect, and dignity.

By actively incorporating these principles into our lives, we can foster a culture of compassion and inclusivity.

A Fundamental Change In World View

This experience fundamentally changed the way I view the world and the people in it. It taught me to lead with compassion, to be more patient and understanding, and to always seek opportunities to uplift those around me. It reinforced the belief that every individual, regardless of their circumstances, has immeasurable value and deserves to be treated with dignity and respect.

Looking back, I am immensely grateful for the chance to be a part of this incredible journey. It has undoubtedly shaped me into a better person and equipped me with invaluable life skills. As I embark on new endeavors, both academically and personally, I carry the lessons learned from this experience as a constant reminder to approach every interaction with empathy and compassion.

I encourage all of you to seek out opportunities to extend a helping hand, to lend an ear, and to make a positive difference in someone’s life. Together, let’s create a world that celebrates diversity, fosters inclusivity, and embraces the beauty of compassion.

About The Author

As a create-a-preneur, Tanvee Maheshwari is passionate about creating and sharing knowledge that helps people align with their innate potential.

She enjoys learning and honing her skills across diverse domains, including Psychology, Public Speaking and Entrepreneurship. She is also a budding Voice Over Artist and Content Creator.

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